Reaching the Female Orgasm: Oh God! Don’t Stop!

By | June 2, 2013

If you’re lucky, you’ve heard your gal say it before. So exactly what does she mean?


Don’t stop. Don’t slow down. Don’t pick up the pace… just keep doing exactly what you’re doing. That’s if you’ve got what it takes to go the long mile.

Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm

Think of the female orgasm as the peak of the mountain. You start at the bottom and work you way up. Along the way, you might hit obstacles (awkward positions and such) and find the need to make adjustments to your well though-out plan. Hiccups happen. That’s okay… at least when you’re just starting out.

Consistency is the key

Variety is wonderful when it comes to keep excitement in the bedroom. But when you’re hitting the right spot and you woman says, “don’t stop,” the last thing you want to do is trip up. Here’s why.

She’s telling in her own words (as unoriginal as they might be) that you’ve found a direct path to her orgasm. Of course, there’s no guarantee how long it’ll take to reach the top of the mountain, but whatever you do, don’t stop.

Think baseball. Bite your lip until it bleeds. Do what it takes to keep your mind off your own mountain peak and focus on hers. Here’s the bottom line. You’ve just got to keep doing what you’re doing, because whatever you’re doing is right on target.

What if I fail?

Okay… maybe not that bad. But let’s call each minor adjustment after “don’t stop” a slight slip down the mountain. Though you may not realize it, when you change your rhythm, you also set yourself a little further away from pushing her over the top. Too many changes and you might not ever reach your goal, and neither will she. 🙁

So, when your gal says, “don’t stop,” it’s time for you to focus on that long-lasting sustainable rhythm. Sometimes the ascent is fast; sometimes it’s slow. What’s important isn’t the pace, but rather keeping a steady rhythm.

The question now is: Can you endure?

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